Folks, it's been a rough, rough week for me at Woodberry. On Thursday the school announced that my great friend and the school's head football coach, Clint Alexander, would not be returning after this season.
What's that got to do with a physics teaching blog?
Know that Clint has been the best academic mentor I've ever known. He helped me understand how to build relationships with students I hadn't previously connected with. His willingness to involve me in his program -- as coach for a few years, and as broadcaster for a decade -- gave me the basis for relationships with countless boys who took my class.
When I have a problem with a student in physics, I go to Clint for help in figuring it out. He knows nothing of physics. But he knows everything about teaching.
Below is the short halftime segment I did during the audio broadcast of today's football game. I will miss him.
Under Clint Alexander’s reign as coach, football here at Woodberry has become the epicenter for positive leadership in the school. Our football players are the embodiment of the Woodberry mandate to work hard, build character, and take care of each other.
That wasn’t always true. I remember, years ago, pushing a baby stroller (with my baby in it) past the field before a practice. Some players whom I didn’t even know loudly catcalled from afar. They succeeded in making me uncomfortable at my own school, my own home. I questioned my place here. If *I’m* being treated this way, how would I feel as a new boy? Especially a new boy who didn’t play football?
That sort of thing doesn’t happen anymore. I proudly now live at a kinder, gentler Woodberry.
Clint’s influence began with the football team, of course. He convinced them that the depth of their commitment and love for each other would translate both into success on the field, and to lasting friendships. He was right, as seven graduated classes would attest. He sold his vision to parents, telling them famously that their boys “will be husbands and fathers far longer than they’ll be football players.”
But his message of inclusive values permeated the campus, not just the football team.
I have always known that I’m an outsider here at Woodberry. I don’t share an ethnic, religious, or cultural background with anyone. Physicists aren’t generally known for their ability to fit in socially. Yet, Clint welcomed me, made me feel like I belonged. Clint has reached out to everyone, not merely the popular, athletic, and large. He sponsored the Korean barbecue team. He worked with the smallest of freshmen, and even faculty spouses, in the weight room. He was the one who took Keith Johnson and Abbie Ryan seriously about coaching football - even though 15 years ago, appointing a grounds staff member or a woman as a football coach simply was Not Done.
“Whatsoever you do to the least of my brothers and sisters, you do to me.” I’ve heard us read that verse in chapel; I’ve never seen anyone who lives those words more authentically than Clint Alexander.
I’ll end with a note from Pete Cashwell, longtime play-by-play man for the Woodberry Forest Sports Network -- another of the many outsiders, non-”football people” whom Clint has welcomed as part of his program. “In the last decade,” Pete says, “no member of the Woodberry faculty or staff has done more than Clint Alexander to help strengthen the school's community on campus and enhance its reputation off campus. I'm saddened that his efforts will not be continuing after this season's end and wish him the best of luck wherever he goes from here.”
Pete -- word.
Nice post!
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ReplyDeleteWhile I have significant agreement with your sentiments, I don't feel comfortable publishing them here. To respect Clint's wishes, I'll need to keep the comments focused on the substance of the post. Sorry. :-) -- GCJ
An an employee of the school, I do not believe it is right of you to comment publicly in this type of forum. You're comment to "agree with [their] sentiments" yet take the comments down is just as bad and a way for you to hide behind negative comments that affect the school. Dr. Hulsey is your boss - you do not publicly disagree with your boss.
ReplyDeleteUnknown, please understand that I am in no way publicly disagreeing with my boss. Nor am I hiding behind negative comments.
ReplyDeleteI will take no part in public bashing of the school - or the headmaster - for Clint's departure.
I do agree with some aspects of Stephen's comment -- a comment you did not see. Specifically, I agree that Clint is likely to land on his feet, bringing his positive influence to another fortunate football program. I wish my friend well.
I do not agree with other aspects of the comment. The blog moderator doesn't get a line-item veto. So I removed the comment, and I explained my removal.
And to be clear, I will reject outright the next comment in this thread that does not come with a real name. -- GCJ
Furthermore, I resent the idea that writing in honor of my friend and mentor is equivalent to "publicly disagreeing with my boss." Byron Hulsey himself has retweed positive messages about Clint since last Thursday. Byron's message detailing Clint's departure was likewise full of praise. This post in fact agrees wholeheartedly with my boss: Clint Alexander did great things for Woodberry Forest School, we will miss him, and we wish him well.
DeleteI am here to praise Clint, not to bury him.
What a lovely tribute to a fine man.
ReplyDeleteClint Alexander is an amazing man who went out of his way to take my troubled son under his wing during his time at WFS. His leadership and genuine care for the WFS boys and community was unlike anything I've ever seen. His departure is a sad, sad loss for WFS as a community, the current students, and the future students, who won't even realize how much they are missing out on.
ReplyDeleteA little late to the party here but what a great testament to Coach Alexander. Thanks for posting this and I hope all is well
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